TOP 10 WAYS TO AVOID
FIGHTS
Many of us get into
fights very often with our friend, family members, classmates & many more
people. Here are 10 simple ways to avoid fights.
10. ERASE PROBLEMS FROM
YOUR MIND
People show their temper to other people if they are upset
with some other problem. So forget all your problems when you are talking with
a person. Change your mood & keep cool. Think about your external problems
calmly. Every problem in this world has a solution. If you do not get an
immediate solution try to erase the problem from your mind while talking with a
person. This can prevent fights & bad relationships with people to whom you
are talking with.
9. SLEEP WELL
Sleep well. Deprivation of sleep can
make you irritated, moody & angry. When you do not get enough sleep your
whole mind is tired & restless. You often tend to get touchy & mad with
small mistakes done by others. You do not speak clearly when you are deprived
of sleep. Your mind wants to get some rest but you are forced to do something
else which causes anger. Thus sleep well & try finishing all your work
during the day time. Sometimes you do not behave like yourself & make other
people angry.
8. LEARN TO TAKE SORRYS
When people apologize to you learn to
take those. Do not hold a grudge against them. Just become a friend with that
person or do not take revenge. Having a revenge idea in your mind is unhealthy.
This will result in you showing you anger back to him causing an endless fight.
Just try to forget the whole fight by concentrating on things you like to do.
7. DO NOT FEEL JEALOUS
Jealousy can ruin your whole life. If
someone else succeeds you in a competition or in position or anything else do
not have a grudge against him. Feeling jealous can make you show your temper to
your rival which causes an unhealthy relationship with him. Work hard, try new
methods, be smarter & do not give up. You can easily beat your rival.
6. CONTROL YOUR TONGUE
When you speak back at someone else
try to mind the words you use by thinking a second before you speak. In many
cases keeping your mouth shut when someone makes you angry is the best possible
way to prevent an argument which leads to a fight.
5. TRY TO BE DIPLOMATIC
In some cases you need to act like a
diplomat. For example when a teacher asks you whether your classmate x hit
classmate y, you need to say that you do not know. This saves you from having a
bad relationship with classmate x & y. When people ask you tricky questions
give an answer which is suitable to the question & a one which does not
spoil your name or does not offend a another person
. 4. GIVE RESPECT
Give everyone respect. The respect
you give needs to be same for everyone. You can do this by not using harsh
words & treating him or her equally in the same way as you treat others. You
will also get respect if you give respect to others. This results in you having
a good relationship with everyone.
3. ANALYZE THE CAUSE
Try to analyze the cause behind a
previous fight you had with a person. Learn from your previous experience &
deal with the person in a manner which does not cause a fight between you &
him.
2. GIVE UP YOUR EGO
You can simply apologize or accept
defeat to a person who you think can cause a nasty fight. You can declare truce
with your enemy sometimes. If you just give up your self-esteem & say a
sorry a whole fight can end.
1.
AVOID OR IGNORE
Sometimes just ignoring the person
who gives you trouble or avoiding a relationship with the wrong person can
prevent you from a fight. If someone teases you instead of teasing back just
ignore him. He will soon get bored teasing you. Do not get into a relationship
with a person who you already know is a wrong guy.
